Simple answer: I wrote these pages in order to provide a place for my thoughts and writings on bisexuality and polyamory before I was out about them. And that has served me very well, despite the fact that I am now out to pretty much everyone in the world about polyamory, and pretty much everyone but my parents about bisexuality, which at present really isn't their business.

In 1996 I set a personal goal of never being involved with someone for a year without being completely out about that relationship by the end of it. I've lived up to that promise.

Anyway, additionally, I hope that some of my thoughts and experiences can be useful to someone. I sometimes get mail from people who read these pages, and I know that I've given a few people a smile, so I feel pretty good about the whole thing. Do feel free to write with comments or complaints.